Positive life

Today 

Take control of your mind:The rule is simple: Refuse to become upset or angry abourt something that you cannot change. Save your time and energy for those challenges you can influence in some way>Remind yourself that"what cannot be cured must be endured".

Go as Far as You Can See:You must be clear about your goal but be flexible about the process of achieving it. No matter how well you plan and organize in advance, unforeseen circumstances will for your to revise your plans over and over again. But your be prepared to take the first step.

Plan for Turbulence: Expect trouble as an inevitable part of life and when it comes, hold our high, look it squarely in the eye, and say "Iwill be bigger than you. You cannot defeat me."


Problems Go with Territory:First of all,expect to have problems,disappointments, and temporary failures.Don't be shocked, surprised,or angry when they occur,Instead ,take a deep breath,relax, and say "solving problems is my jobs: problems are what I do",Each time you solve a problem, you will become eve more capable of even greater problems.
Success is not an Accident.
Do not wait .THe time will never be just right .Start where you stand: work with whatever tools you have at your command, and the better tools will be found as you go long.

Success Is Always One Step Beyond Failure: Your greates successes almost invariably come one step beyond your greatest failures, when everything inside you says to quit.Men and women, throughout history have been amazed to find that their great breakthroughs came about as a result of persisting in the face of disappointment and all evidence to the contrary.

Persistence is the ability to face defeat again and again without giving up to push on in the face of great difficulty.


Future belongs to the risk takers, not the security seekers. Life is perverse in the sense tht the more you seek security,the less of it you have.But the more you seek opportunity, the more likely it is that you will achieve the security that you desire.
Do  what you love:the money will follow.True comes from discovering what you love to do and then throwing your whole heart into doing it better and better."
I can do plenty alone
But with God I can do more

The difference between winners and losers is the way they respond to guilt
and failure. People who have comeback capabilities are the ones who face
their failures, accept their reality, and learn from them.

Trace your fear
Erace your fear
what are you most afraid of rights now?what  is the toughest enemy you face
today's? Is it the people around you? A job that confounds you?Sell doubts that
surrend you?
what gold mines are you passing up because you fear failure? How often do you opt for the sure
thing rather than dare to take a risk? I can't possibly do that you think. I can't succeed.
The only thing holding you back from crossing the finish line ahead of the competition is fear.
you need to trace the enemy in your life today to its origin in fear.Once you have zeroed in on your fear, you can then erase it.



Positive attitude for a positive comeback
success comes in"cans"
Failure comes in "can'ts"
Daily take  four steps
1.plan purposely,
2.prepare prayerfully,
3.proceed positively
4.pursue persistently


Concentrate on Three "A"s to succeed Attitude, Action & aptitude
if you change attitude, change,  moved to action
action increase your aptitude

To Overcome failure:Prepare- Prevent, Repair - Repent
Prepare requires mental preparation, what should you do first
Repair: certain emotions may stand in the way of your comeback .how to
identify them and deal with them
Care: several personal attributes must be present if your comeback is to be successful.
Prepare and prevent
Repair and repent
Repentance  Greeks metanoia means a change of mind , Hebrews used their verb shub implies  the act of turning
 

No Difference

Look a the " Ocean" and not at the "wave": see no difference between ant and angel. Every worm is the brother of the Nazarene. How say one is greater and one less? Each is great in his own place.


Feel young , live longer. Age is attitude of mind . Think youthful, you feel youthful. Energy can also be enhanced being active.
If Iam relaxed
My body relaxed, my emotions relaxed
Iam totally relaxed
Iam getting better, stronger and happier for ever
Psychology says our mind controls our body.So keep your mind cool , that take care of your body.

Positive thinking
Positive thinking brings inner peace, success, improved relationships, better health, happiness and satisfaction. It also helps the daily affairs of life move more smoothly, and makes life look bright and promising. It improves intra communication skills. positive attitude is healthy for everybody 

Positive mental attitude
Positive thinking is a mental attitude that admits into the mind thoughts, words and images that are conductive to growth, expansion and success. It is a mental attitude that expects good and favorable results. A positive mind anticipates happiness, joy, health and a successful outcome of every situation and action. Whatever the mind expects, it finds.


Positive quote

The Darkness of egoism is more impenetrable than darkness itself-

He, who finds faults with others cannot see his own

A true cause never fails, a true word never hurts in the end

A man without an ideal is like a ship without a rudder

An ideal is one thing ; living up to it is quite another


The Stress
The Researcher says that "stress" can actually increase our performance. Under stress human being put all his/her efforts to reach goal and ultimately conquers.It is one sort of impetus that explore one's true potential. Under stress emotionally and biolchemically stimulate to sharpen performance.
Mad world

This world is a huge lunatic asylum where all men are mad, some after money, some after women, some after name or fame, and a few after God. I prefer to be mad after God. Vivekanada's Master
Be Happy and Let Other to be Happy
It is our attitude that make us happier throughout the day.Keep smiling and let other smile.
Prepare to change the way you look at things
Always thing solutions , not problems
Share and watch funny things
Listen to music
Dedicate some time to read inspirational articles
Each day try to make other happy
Try to do things that make u happy , like favorite movie, dish ,place

Smart way
Instead of thinking what about you have missing , think about what you have that anyone else missing.


Conquer Mind
Decide to carry on good thoughts, improve concentration power, Strong power of concentration makes it easier to free the mind from thoughts. when there are no thought to distract ,one becomes aware and conscious of inner being


Apply Different Approach
Most people think the same kind of thoughts, and visualize the same mental images in an unconscious automatic manner.This means keep viewing the same movie in their minds, consequently. Try to apply different approach to your life. Do not always be stereo type. Adopt new ways, style,thinking.

Inner Peace Happiness
Smart and positive thinking brings inner peace, better relationship & understanding, happiness, togetherness. It helps to solve your problems smooth and diligently.

Benefits of a positive attitude
Achieve goals and attain success.


Accelerate Success more easily.

Develop Greater inner power and strength.

The ability to inspire and motivate yourself and others.

The ability to surpass any difficulty.

Life smiles at you.

People respect you.





Right Direction
The meditation plays an important role in concentration. Without it, the mind just jumps restlessly from one thought to another, not allowing us to meditate properly.

To develop this power you need to train and exercise it. Forget all your excuses about not having the time or being too busy.
Never say that the circumstances are not appropriate or that you cannot find a quiet place to exercise.
With a little planning, desire and motivation you can always find the time to exercise each day, no matter how busy you are.
It energize your body, mind and soul. It keep you, always in right side

Do not allow unhappy event influence your mind

It is our attitude that makes us feel happy or unhappy.
It is true, we meet all kinds of situations during the day, and some of them may not be conductive to happiness.
 We chose to recollect unhappy event instead, relish the happy moments.
Do not allow unhappy event influence your mind.

Drive away your anxiety


Keep control over your thoughts As negative thoughts get stronger and stronger, your anxiety gets stronger..

Develop emotional and mental detachment .You need to insist on some self discipline and control over your feelings.

when you go to bed at night and wake in the morning think about good thing , even if it is small and insignificant

Use positive, cheering and motivating words to start your day

Always try to keep busy or doing something keeps your mind off anxiety. It may be small things like cleaning your house, washing your clothes, mediating, exercising etc

Everyday set a goal and work everyday to achieve it. This action will direct your thoughts and feelings away from worries and anxieties,

. Share your anxiety with someone who is close to you. Sometime it relieve your anxiety.

Always find reasons to laugh. .

Use positive words in your conversation
If watching the news fills you with anxiety - turn off the TV


Apology strengthens confidence

It is believe that personal equation between two individuals,any disruption in the form of an argument, failure to keep commitments or mistake can be set right with a sincere apology form the person on the erring side.
It also indicates your willingness to accept your mistakes and the courage to face the consequences.
Use your body language to express the sincerity of your apology.

Think bigger
It is human tendency we are never satisfied with what we have .
 It always about a bigger some thing,like a new car big house a better job and so on..
 It is all about recognizing and enjoying the things in your life that you have been taking for granted.
This requires. Learning to appreciate what you have is in fact a great way to live life.
It not only empower you but improve confidence and impetus to to achieve what you want also.
It make path to attain your dreams.
Dreaming high should be the ambition and at same time try to put effort to achieve that.


Keep away stress
Stress is the buz word in all workplaces . Stress may be due to varied factors.The ability to manage stress keep one avoid health hazards.Need follow few steps to keep away stress.
Try to do task in order of importance
Analise your schedule and responsibilities and daily tasks
Try to put what you can good, perfection may be to last task
Try to move office little early and chalk the plan
Try to take short break to rejuvenate yourself
Always think positive, it support your confidence and motivates
Develop tendency to meet challenges with humor
Take sometime to spend time with family and friends and come back to work fully recharged.

Positive mental attitude

Positive thinking is a mental attitude that admits into the mind thoughts, words and images that are conductive to growth, expansion and success. It is a mental attitude that expects good and favorable results. A positive mind anticipates happiness, joy, health and a successful outcome of every situation and action. Whatever the mind expects, it finds.